Bobbin and Lace and Tatting

does anyone with my hair type, have any simple tips or tricks to pull it off? tame the beast within?

my hair is baby fine and sort of curly/ wavy
(i straiting my hair almost everyday- its the only way i know how to pull it off- but it damages my hair a lot)
my hair is not very thick- sort of on the thin side
right now my hair is up to the tops of my shoulder blades
i like to keep it sort of short- it looks “cute” but it isn’t like my all my friends long beautiful hair (im jealous)
but i do think that it takes a strong person to pull of short hair which i seem to do well…. but guys just frickn love long hair
short seems to be the only way to keep it controlled and not looking too thin
i have tried clips, bobby pins
(any suggestions for ways to maintain hair with clips or bobbins photos?)
i just want so tips to get me trough the month- when i get my hair cut
i really would like to know also if anyone else is struggling with the thin baby fine hair factor as much as i am

tease it or get hair extensions.

Bobbin it up!